Happy Birthday Baby Me...

          I was born on October 6th in 1993. Wow, I'v almost lived for two decades. Anyway, as a baby my temperament,the behavioral and emotional characteristics that are fairly well established at birth, would have been considered easy. I slept throughout the night easily, I had a regular schedule and I really wasn't fazed by changes. I was awesome.There are other different temperaments besides my own, such as difficult and slow to warm up. Difficult temperament infants are described as the opposite of easy ones. Their schedules are irregular and don't like any change, so their demeanor is a crabby one more than a happy one. Slow to warm up infants aren't grumpy, but they're quiet. They are still regular in schedules but are slow to adapt. The good thing is that they will eventually "warm up" to people. You may ask, why did I consider myself to be an easy infant? Well, when I asked my mom, she went on and on about the beautiful amounts of sleep she got once I was three months old. I was happy and didn't really get grumpy. She then asked herself why I couldn't have stayed that way...



In any case I suppose that's why. I mean there weren't specific examples for why, like an amazing story, but hey, my mom seemed to spell it out for me easily enough.


As for how I dealt with my parents and how attached I was to them, I'd have to say that I was fairly secure. I was willing to separate from my parents and explore the world around me. I would look to my mother for comfort. but even around strangers, I was still calm with my mother around. I was a bit upset when left but I was easily soothed. An example is that I would run around new environments as a baby and not go too far from my mother. I would also attribute this to my loving and secure upbringing which caused me to be so secure.



There are many other types of attachments though. Besides secure, there are (2) avoidant babies, (3) ambivalent babies and (4) disorganized-disoriented babies. Avoidant babies have no true reaction or concern for their mothers or strangers although willing to explore a strange place. They avoid touching base with things around them. Ambivalent babies are clingy, don't like to explore, were upset with strangers despite their mother's presence, and would freak at their mother's leaving, yet when they return would ask to be picked up and protest at the same time. D-D babies are unable to decide how to react at all. They may approach her after she would come back from leaving them, but be cautious of their own mother. They seem like scared little guys, kind of depressed in a sense.

There are studies that even say that these attributes stem from the different upbringing of each child.



And that my dear readers, is the story of my babyhood, is psychology terms.